How do you figure out how to do less while still engaging in activities that bring you joy?
And maintain a minimum of function so you don’t feel like a loser?
Everyone who knows me is aware of how much I used to be able to do. My family has been under what feels like non stop stress since 2012 and if I can’t bring that stress level under control I just don’t know how we can continue to function.
A huge stressor is time. Specifically the apparent lack of it.
I’ve reduced the number of things I do drastically since 2012 yet still find there aren’t enough hours for remaining obligations. I rarely watch TV or have idle minutes (I’d like to have idle minutes!).
I’ve given up weekly herding which brings me sorrow despite a feeling of relief at not having the weekly drive (because driving is still nerve wracking). My house is dirty and I’m letting that go. I rehomed my beloved Chantecler hens. I’m paying people to do trash and recycle runs. Only one dog is in active training. We aren’t re-upping for MusikGarten. We talked Grandma into weekly yoga with E for a little break and a nice young lady gives us another E break for a few hours most weekends.
I streamline what I can where I can. I have a fish tank to zen.
What else can I change to reduce stress and find time?